I’ll use the terms “loyal customer” and “regular customer” interchangeably, since I’ll focus primarily on service-oriented businesses, like restaurants, small cafes, and coffee shops for this post. The points I list here, however, could apply to most vendors, products, or businesses.
The concept seems sort of “obvious” and “corny”, actually. I mean, who would say that loyal customers are bad for business? Well, here’s my scenario: It never fails. I try Chinese take-out one night from a new restaurant, get exposed to a great desert at a small café after a big meeting, or wake up for a morning visit to the coffee shop and it happens. I’m hooked. In fact, I might find myself going to the source of my new infatuation at the same times each week, repeatedly, for a long period of time. Maybe I’ll follow the same ritual for most of a year or longer. Sure, I may develop some specific “quirks” and make some special requests each time I order, but for the most part, I try to “blend into the background” and be respectful of the staff and not too demanding. In fact, as a regular customer, I become friendly with the staff, they know how I like my order and cater to it, and so our “work relationship” goes for the time that I continue to indulge my senses with the product of choice. I realize this scenario applies to a lot of people, even if only for a small item like their morning cup of coffee or sandwich from the downstairs deli in their workplace. It was this type of customer-vendor relationship, built on the customer’s appreciation for the product and the vendor’s appreciation for the customer that inspired TV shows like Cheers. You know, “where everybody knows your name”. This is also the type of customer loyalty that the biggest name brands and product manufacturers continually seek and are “dying” to achieve. Great, so everybody continues in this routine “happily ever after”, right? Not so much.
Okay, well, it’s not that it can’t potentially be that way. We all remember the old shows like The Andy Griffith Show, and many others of course, that depict scenes with certain men in the town visiting a certain barbershop, café, or any other type of business and remaining loyal to it for their “lifetime”. Yes, there are many more choices available now, far too many sources vying for our “share of wallet” (that’s a piece of our cash, for the uninitiated), and far more diversified tastes and preferences than may have been apparent in the “golden age” of television. The goal, of course, is to attract customers, keep them over the long term, and turn them into our store or brand “evangelists”. We all understand this, so why does this relationship often break down and take other potential customers with it? After observing behavior at various coffee shops that I’ve frequented over the last couple of years, I came up with a list of points that coffee shops, cafes, and restaurants should remember to both attract customers and continue to satisfy their “regular” patrons. This list could apply to other types of businesses in most cases, but we’ll focus on those.
1. Loyal customers are still your customers. Treat them like that. Sounds silly, right? It is amazing how often this is overlooked. It is overlooked most often when a server or owner is friends with the customer. It is in my nature to be nice, to defer to others and allow them to be served ahead of me when I have extra time, and generally to be helpful and humble. However, in every situation where I’ve been considered a “regular” it seems that a server, manager, or other customer-facing employee begins, over time, to view a regular as a “nuisance” and as “undeserving” of the same level of service as other patrons. Again, I certainly don’t demand much, but I am a customer. That is the point here. Regardless of how well you know your customer, or how you infer that they “can wait”, make sure you are giving them the best level of service possible, just as you would to any customer that walks through the door. This does not have to be service that interferes with other customers, simply the type of service you would provide to any of your customers.
2. Loyal customers are your best referral source. In business, we all say we know this one. It is how we “implement” this principle that proves that we know it. Once again, I can use myself as an example of this point. If I really like a restaurant, café, or particular coffee shop franchise or location, I will not only tell all of my friends and family, but I will bring them with me, give them gift cards, or do anything else I can do to encourage people to visit the establishment. Never forget that most regulars engage in the same behaviors.
3. Losing a customer is bad. Losing a loyal customer is even worse. There are lots of books written about the necessity of good customer service. It just makes sense. In the book, Fifty Powerful Ideas You Can Use to Keep Your Customers, by Paul R. Timm, he states that an upset customer will tell, on average, 11 or 12 other people about their experience. The book was written in 2002, so you can imagine that in the world of social networking, which matured long after that date, the numbers are far higher than they once were. We’ve heard the news stories of a celebrity tweeting about something that upset them at about a brand or product and all of the damage control that ensued on the part of the brand’s PR representatives to try to fix the problem. Your daily customers may not be celebrities, but they have a similar reach in social networking and other platforms with technology. To compound the issue, regular customers feel they have a part of their life “invested” in your product or service. While they are content, they share that joy with you in the form of repeat business, referrals, and treating their friends and family to your products. If you upset or neglect them, they will take on your demise as their new purpose in life. I want to emphasize this, not to be cynical or pessimistic, only to point out just how critical this fact is to your business’ survival and prosperity.
4. Reward loyalty, don’t punish it. Yet again, it seems as though this point would be understood without even mentioning it. It is difficult for any business to control what all of their front-line customer representatives do at all times, whether management is present or not. All of the customer service personnel, however, are ambassadors of your product or service. One bad seed can spoil the whole thing. I will leave implementation ideas to the experts, but the point must be made. If any service person makes a regular customer, or any customer for that matter, feel less than welcome, the consequences mentioned above could apply. I believe that most “regular customers” at restaurants and cafes are like myself; they don’t expect special treatment and simply like the environment, products, and some good conversation now and then. We understand when you are really busy, not feeling well, or have other pressing obligations that demand your time. We can survive with the same level of service you provide to others. However, from time to time, it is good to recognize loyal customers for what they are and offer some additional “perks” or “incentives” for continuing their visit and to bring others with them as well. After all, they could spend that daily or weekly cash at another place. An occasional discount or freebie may seem like an imposition at the moment, but it can result in renewed enthusiasm on the customer’s part which could lead to instant payback on your part.
5. If you have an issue with a loyal customer, communicate with them. It would be nice to think that all customers are model patrons all of the time and that there is nothing but positive benefits experienced by all as a result of their visits. Unfortunately, this isn’t the real world. Here’s an example. Maybe a regular customer, who is usually well-behaved and unobtrusive, decides to listen to some loud music that can be heard through their headphones every morning while they eat. After a period of time, other customers start moving away from them and one may even complain to management. Rather than letting the situation get worse without intervening, the best approach is always communication. If service personnel or management can communicate with regular customers in times of concern, in a pleasant and appropriate manner, the situation will most often resolve itself. A customer cannot read the manager or personnel’s minds any more than they can read the customer’s mind.
Given an opportunity to rectify a situation, it is my assertion that the customer will be more than happy to comply and very apologetic about an issue they probably were not aware of in the first place. If a problem persists, even after communication, then management naturally must handle the situation as they would with any adverse situation. Most situations should, however, resolve themselves gracefully if given appropriate opportunity.
The points above are basic customer service reminders, and it is true that most of us are very well aware of them. Rather than trying to overstate the obvious, such reminders are beneficial for all of us sometimes. As we become inundated with our work efforts and technology becomes overwhelming, it simultaneously becomes easy to look past these critical principles. The key point to remember is that restaurants, cafes, and coffee shops have “built-in marketers” in their midst. When recognized for the gem that they can be, they will produce long term results that money and the best advertising agencies in the world just can’t buy.

